Crystal wants some time alone because she feels a need to ge…

Crystal wants some time alone because she feels a need to get in touch with herself as an individual. However, her romantic partner wants her to spend as much time together as possible. The tension in this example illustrates the ____ ____ relational dialectic.

Pau’s partner asks her to tell them everything about her exe…

Pau’s partner asks her to tell them everything about her exes.  However, Pau does not want something she says to be held against her and therefore is not willing to disclose. Her partner feels hurt that she won’t confide.  This can be described as an imbalance in which relational dialectic?