The goal of nonassertive behavior is to avoid conflict and t…

The goal of nonassertive behavior is to avoid conflict and tension, and it is often accompanied by statements like “Don’t make waves” or “I don’t want any trouble.” Unfortunately, those who are prone to nonassertive behavior frequently do not get what they want. The goal of assertive behavior, in contrast, is to directly and honestly communicate one’s desires and wishes. A person who is assertive takes action rather than just thinking about it and usually ends up satisfied with the results.

Kyle ran into his house, slamming the door behind him.  He t…

Kyle ran into his house, slamming the door behind him.  He threw his book bag on the floor and plopped onto the couch.  After six hours of playing Grand Larceny VII, he ate some pizza and fell asleep with a slice on his stomach and his feet on his book bag. When Kyle came home from class the next day, he was noticeably distraught.  He balled up his latest essay and placed it inside a soup can in the garbage. He then flipped the soup can upside down in the garbage can and arranged loose pieces of trash over it.  As he plopped down on the couch, he let out a sigh and picked up his controller. What can you infer about Kyle from his behavior with the soup can?