Client: “I have so much anxiety and it just gets in my way w…

Client: “I have so much anxiety and it just gets in my way with everything. I feel like I suck at my job because anytime I am in a meeting or talking to clients I am so anxious that I mess up my words or start to sweat and turn red. Its just so embarrassing.” Therapist: Was there ever a time in your life when talking ot clients or presenting in meetings was easier for you? On a scale of 1-10 how much would you say this problem is affecting you? What kind of therapist is this?    

Client: “I just feel like such a failure as a mom. Like how…

Client: “I just feel like such a failure as a mom. Like how did I not recognize the warning signs in my own son. How could I have been so blind to not see his was getting intro trouble?” Therapist: “Mom guilt is a tale as old as time. Society has repeatedly told you that you have to be perfect as a mom and that everything your child does is a reflection of you. Society has made us women feel as if our worth is dependent on our ability to be good mothers. I hear you talking to yourself in that same oppressive manner.” This is what kind of therapist?

Client: I dont know why I am so scared to commit. I have bee…

Client: I dont know why I am so scared to commit. I have been with my girlfriend for years. I know she loves me. I really see a future with her. I am just too terrified to move forward. What is wrong with me?” Therapist: You have repressed feelings of abandonment stemming from the way your mom treated you as a child. This is called a reaction formation. You are essentially pushing her away so that she cannot abandon you like your mother did.” What type of therapist is this?