The goal of nonassertive behavior is to avoid conflict and t…
The goal of nonassertive behavior is to avoid conflict and tension, and it is often accompanied by statements like “Don’t make waves” or “I don’t want any trouble.” Unfortunately, those who are prone to nonassertive behavior frequently do not get what they want. The goal of assertive behavior, in contrast, is to directly and honestly communicate one’s desires and wishes. A person who is assertive takes action rather than just thinking about it and usually ends up satisfied with the results.